Lesbian Dating – Flirting Tips for Lesbians

By Nenah Drewry

As a lesbian, it can be tricky when it comes to flirting with other women, especially if you do not already know their sexual orientation. It’s important to remember that flirting is an art; and a two-way game. It entails skill in reading the interests and comfort of your object of desire in order to know what to do next. If you already know her sexual orientation and instinctively feel that she is just as attracted to you, you may flirt overtly with her. However, you may want to keep it subtle if you are not to sure about her feelings.

When out together, sit near her and take note of whether she moves closer or farther away, to let you know if she is open to the possibilities. Always look her in the eye when speaking to her and hold her gaze longer than you would with a platonic partner. Display chivalry by opening her door and pulling out her seat at the restaurant and see how she reacts.

Place your hand gently upon hers to see whether she will pull hers away. Pay her compliments regarding how she looks, her outfit and her hairdo. Confess to her that you had been thinking about her when you were not together. Make her laugh as laughter is not only a great icebreaker but is also a proven aphrodisiac. Offer to get her a drink while at a bar or club, and gently touch her hand or shoulder as you hand her the drink.

Nenah Drewry is a freelance writer specializing in articles on lesbian online dating  and lesbian online personals .

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