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Lesbian Personals – Placing and Responding to an Ad

By Nenah Drewry

When placing your personal ad, be sure to write it out in correct spelling and grammar. This is to avoid putting off potential lesbian dates with an ad that is poorly written. Try to maintain a positive tone and focus on the things that attract you to other women. Avoid going on and on about the things you dislike. Be creative and avoid cliches such as “I want someone honest with a great sense of humor”. Your title should be able to attract interest, and so should your photo. An ad with a photo will always receive more hits.

On the other hand, if you see a personal ad that catches your eye, you will want to respond to it in the right way. For instance, you may want to check whether your potential love interest resides near enough to where you are so that you can easily arrange a date. Also check to see whether they fit into what you are looking for in terms of their age, political opinions, and interests such as the books they read and the music they listen to. It’s also important that you find their photo attractive.

So now that you have determined that you are interested in getting to know her better – how do you proceed? You may contact her via email or phone, depending on the contact details she included in her personal. Sending each other a couple of emails should give you a good idea of whether you want to meet her in person or not. If you do, then you may ask her out on a first date.

Nenah Drewry is a freelance writer specializing in articles on lesbian online dating  and lesbian online personals .

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